Presented for Young Ladies & Young Gentlemen

(Ages 7 – 12)

Hosted by “Miss Donna”

of “Teapots, Treats & Traditions”

“Miss Donna” is pleased to offer the following “Manners & Etiquette” interactive instruction (2 hours):

· First Meeting

Introductions:  Our bodies convey so many messages about us!  Positive body language is a way we can convey on the OUTSIDE –the way we present ourselves – the respect we have for ourselves on the INSIDE!  Introductions are important “first impressions!”

Shaking Hands:  Handshakes – especially to an adult – is a nice,

polite gesture.  Imagine “mitten hands” (four fingers together, thumb

extended).  Two firm “up-and down” handshakes, then release and relax.

Eye Contact:  In our culture, we look directly into the eyes of the

person with whom we are speaking.  This is especially true when

extending or receiving a hand shake.

*Practice making introductions and shaking hands.  Young ladies may also   like to practice doing a “curtsy, “and young gentlemen may like to practice bowing to a young lady, as if asking her to dance!“

·         The “ABC’s” of Table Manners

          The Table Setting

Observe Table Setting Arrangement

Understanding a Table Setting/Place Setting

“A Little Grace & Charm Mealtime Map”

Purpose of Each Item at the Table

At the Table (“Pink Tea” and “Light Refreshments” provided for

enjoyment and demonstration.)

Before the Meal – Introductions to be seated.  Young gentlemen

may seat young ladies.

Seating arrangements

Posture at the Table

Napkins

During the meal – “Magic Words!”

Using utensils properly (Refer to “Mealtime Map” if desired.)

Styles of Eating (American and Continental)

“Dos & Don’ts” of Table Manners (Activity)

“Taking Tea”

Excusing yourself from the table

“Your Dining Experience” - “What Do You Prefer?” (Activity)

“Your Dining Experience” - “Practically Perfect?” (Activity)

·         Other Important Social Graces

Self -Respect and Confidence

Integrity, Grace, Hospitality and Tact (at home, in school, and

“out and about!”)

“Jump Into Your Pictures!” – (Coloring Activity)

Thank you notes – A memorable way to show appreciation.  Even

Children can complete a picture for friends and family which

lets them know how much their kindness is appreciated.  A

hand-written note, or even a post card, is a thoughtful way to

say “thank-you” and keep in touch.

Activity – Writing a thank-you note.

“Story Time Activity” with “Miss Donna!”

"Thank You" favor for each child to take home, to show my appreciation!
 

Please remember...“Mind Your Manners!”